
bptimmer
Oct 19, 20201 min read
Separate Playing Fields
“You aren’t even on the same playing field.” This is some advice I gave to a friend the other day. She was having issues with someone in...

“You aren’t even on the same playing field.” This is some advice I gave to a friend the other day. She was having issues with someone in...

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Look at where you're at in your life right now. Everything about it is 100% because of you. Your job. Your circle. Your appearance. Your...