Mediocre Men

If you have ever used guilt to manipulate a woman to get what you want;

If you have used guilt to get your significant other to cancel plans;

If you’ve ever guilted a woman, and then in the same breath, put your hands up, and said, ‘I mean, do what you want, but…’ and then given her the silent treatment, or pulled out a ‘poor me’ when she actually does what she wants—

KNOCK THAT SHIT OFF.

You probably have a girl (and most likely a people-pleaser) who only wants to make you happy, and maybe you could not make it all about you.

Emotional manipulation is bullshit.

That age old saying ‘You catch more bees with honey?’ (Or whatever it is-)

Try that.

Because wouldn’t it be cooler if you knew your girl was choosing to spend her time with you… rather than being forced to out of the fear of you treating her like shit?

And before the insecure men get all triggered and ‘but what about her?!’

Try for just one second to look within, or from another perspective, instead of pointing fingers.

(Just like I’d also tell women to start looking within, and controlling only what they can control- which sometimes includes things like therapy, or sometimes it’s simply just flipping the bird and walking out the door to do what it is you actually want to do.)

You are allowed to do the things that make you happy. Point blank. Period.

Because happy? Luxuriously Dope. 🖤

(Of course, this absolutely could apply to anyone, not JUST the men. But I’m on one today, and you get the idea.)